THE LOVE STATEEmpowerment & Acceptance through Love

One-to-one · online

Relationship coaching that meets you where you are

Relationship coaching is for anyone who wants to look honestly at how they love, connect, and relate — single, partnered, or unsure. It is a space to see clearly, feel more honestly, and choose what comes next.

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60-minute intro call · €50 instead of €120

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What coaching is

Coaching is a focused, private conversation. It is not a script, a diagnosis, or a performance. It is a place where you can bring what is true for you — confusion, desire, grief, hope, a decision, a pattern you keep repeating — and look at it with someone who is fully present.

Relationship dynamics often come into the work because they reveal how we love, communicate, protect ourselves, and grow. But the session always follows what is most alive for you.

What coaching is not

It is not therapy, medical care, or a promise of a particular outcome. It is not about becoming someone else. It is about becoming more honest about who you already are and what you actually want.

You do not need to be in a relationship, and you do not need to identify with a particular label. Coaching is open to anyone willing to show up with curiosity and honesty.

One-to-one · Intro offer

Clarity Call

€50

Regular price €120

60-minute intro session · regular sessions €120

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Save €70 on your first call. Tente works with a limited number of new clients each month.

What is included

  • A 60-minute one-to-one session by video call
  • A space shaped around what is most alive for you
  • Personalised practices and reflections to take with you
  • Text and audio support between sessions
  • Honest, compassionate, and practical guidance

Sessions are held online. You can join from anywhere with a stable internet connection and a private space. Languages: English, Spanish, Dutch, and French.

Frequently Asked Questions

Questions Before Starting

Honest answers about relationship coaching and what to expect.

Relationship coaching is a one-to-one conversation with Tente, focused on how you love, connect, and relate — to a partner, a family member, a colleague, or yourself. It is a private space to look honestly at what is present, clarify what you want, and find practical ways forward.

Coaching is open to anyone who wants to explore love, connection, and personal growth. You do not need to be in a relationship, and you do not need to identify with a particular label. The work is shaped around you.

No. Sessions are one-to-one with Tente — partners are not seen together. This is relationship coaching, not couples therapy: it focuses on how you relate, not on treating a relationship as a third patient.

Yes. Sessions take place online by video call. You can join from anywhere with a stable internet connection and a private space.

A standard session is 60 minutes. The pace and focus are agreed together.

The first 60-minute clarity call is €50, instead of the regular €120. There is no obligation to continue — we will decide together whether ongoing sessions make sense.

There is no fixed number. Some people come for a single clarity session; others choose a short series of sessions to work through a particular season of life. We can decide together what supports you without selling you a package you do not need.

No. Coaching is educational and developmental. It is not medical, psychological, psychiatric, or sex therapy, and it does not diagnose or treat health conditions. If you need clinical support, please work with a qualified professional.

Sessions are available in English, Spanish, Dutch, and French.

You can book directly through Cal.com or send a question through the contact page.

If something in you is ready to be seen, start there

A clarity call is a simple first step. We will talk about what you are looking for and whether this work is the right fit.

Book a clarity call

60-minute intro call · €50 instead of €120